The Unbearable Lightness of Being

     Author                           Milan Kundera

     Country                         France

     Genre                             Philosophical Fiction

     Publication Date           1984

     Pages                              305

    




This is quite a different book from what I have read mostly. And a little bit uncomfortable at that. A free flowing, well connected fiction is what typically appeals to me but Milan Kundera's work is surreal, philosophical and pretty disconnected to say the least. Having said that, it is quite intriguing and that is what has stayed with me.

The Unbearable Lightness of Being is the story of Tomas, his wife Teraza, his mistress Sabina and their beloved dog Karenin. As the name explains beautifully, Tomas believes in a life that is light, unattached and unbound. His mind differentiates exquisitely between body and soul and what is infidelity to Tereza is just a way of life and a way of being to him. The enchanting Tereza who strives for something higher in life believes in love and the beauty of chance encounters. As the book evolves, she matures from being hurt and disappointed at his infidelities to accepting it while striving to create a life with him. Tomas, while he enjoys himself with Sabina, truly and deeply only loves Tereza; beyond all physical love.

Some of the quotes which reflect the true flavour of the book are:

"She took things too seriously, turning everything into a tragedy, and failed to grasp the lightness and amusing insignificance of physical love."

"Hadn't he told her time and again that love and sexuality had nothing in common?"

"Her soul had lost its onlookers curiosity, it's malice and pride; it had retreated deep into the body again, to the farthest gut, waiting desperately for someone to call it out"

"Any schoolboy can do experiments in the physics laboratory to test various scientific hypothesis. But man, because he has only one life to live, cannot conduct experiments to test whether to follow his passion (compassion) or not."

Personally, to me this is a book more about philosophical reflections than about anything else. It's different characters and their varying paradigms forces one to suspend moral judgements (something we are all given to) and learn to accept things as they are...in their pure and light form; without taking them too seriously - "The Unbearable Lightness of Being"